Moviiinggggggg... (temporary)
||Monday, June 21, 2004
OK, I currently updating my other blog site. I'm mooooviiingggg
The other site's url is:
www.lingkan.com
Dats it ^^ I move my blog there....
The other site's url is:
www.lingkan.com
Dats it ^^ I move my blog there....
Bubur Ayam and Cheating on your GF/BF
||Saturday, June 19, 2004
I remember yesterday (or 2 days ago maybe, i forgot ^^) Me and a couple of friends went to Mangga Besar to eat porridge at 11.30pm ('bubur ayam' at the middle of the night, for the very first time in my life, I broke my pledge that I'll only eat porridge for breakfast >.<). The 'bubur' (i prefer to call it bubur ^^) was sooo good. I never tought that bubur could be as good as beef steak (well done, with pepper sauce).
Anyway, in our way to that 'bubur resto' ^^ , we had an 'intresting' conversation (I was a little bit pissed out with the concept proposed by my friend). It's about cheating on your couple. My fren told me story about some people cheating on their couple, and he came into conclusion that cheating is OK.*What da *tuiiitt*....??!!* Well, you know, I was suprised. SO suprised. I mean, cheating is a big deal. He argue me that, it's ok if you cheat 'once' with your couple, as long as you didn't intend to do so. It's ok when you 'accidentaly' cheat on your couple, and as long as you're honest with your couple ("Honey, I've just cheat on you with some hot girl, but don't worry I didn't intend to, it was an accident, and I still love you") it would be ok. Ok, first, it's not accidentaly happen. The 'incident' took 2 person who were aware of what they're doin. Unless some alien took you away and force you to have an affair with her. Second, If you really love your couple, then you wouldn't cheat on them. When you truly love somebody, you will never look for another guy/gal. SO if you cheat on your couple, it means you don't love him/her dat much.
What happen next was, friend started to make a statement that it was the girl who lure the guy to make them cheat on their girlfriend or wife. Basically, he state that it's all the girl's fault. Why does its always the girl who get accused. Hey, if you guys were faithful on your girlfriend and truly love them, then no matter it's Britney Spears, Jessica Alba, or Kristin Kreuk who lure you, you won't be seduced and fall that easy. So don't blame only the girl!! It's your fault too.
My friend also told me story about somebody who cheat on his couple, confess what he did to his couple (with reasons why he cheat of course), and not get blamed by his couple since she's a very nice, kind, passion, and forgiveness lady. On his story, he gave a footage that How lucky it is to have that kind of girlfriend/wife, she will always understand you, you can cheat on her and she'll eventually forgive you, and love you unconditionally. I guess, I'm not that kind of girl.... If my couple cheat on me, it means he doesn't love me that much to keep him from seeing another girl, and it's useless for me to keep on loving him. So I'll stop. Or maybe when my couple cheat on me, I'll think that the mistake was on me. I can't make him happy, I can't make him love me the way I love him. So, I better quit the job.
Of course everybody deserve second chance. But there' s a philosophy saying If there was second chance, there will be third chance, fourth chance, ...
One your couple cheat on you, both of you will never be the same person you were before. You'll have different opinion about him/her (little bit paranoia maybe, he/she could cheat on you anytime), and he/she can repeat the same mistake, cheating again, since you will forgive him/her anyway (hey, you just love them too much). The thing is, both of you will be two different person, the relationship will be diferent. At the end, you two could turn into strangers, or if you work it out, you could be the happilly ever after couple (if you have enough love, passion, and luck).
Haha, it seems that I'm a very pesimist yet gloomy person. but that's it, that's reality. Well, I never been in that situation before, when my guy cheat on me, so I actually don't know what to do If I face that situation. Hehe. Maybe I'll turn into a stupid girl who forgive my boyfriend just to see him cheating on me again :P Well, hope I'll never >.< (*knock, knock on wood*)
Anyway, in our way to that 'bubur resto' ^^ , we had an 'intresting' conversation (I was a little bit pissed out with the concept proposed by my friend). It's about cheating on your couple. My fren told me story about some people cheating on their couple, and he came into conclusion that cheating is OK.*What da *tuiiitt*....??!!* Well, you know, I was suprised. SO suprised. I mean, cheating is a big deal. He argue me that, it's ok if you cheat 'once' with your couple, as long as you didn't intend to do so. It's ok when you 'accidentaly' cheat on your couple, and as long as you're honest with your couple ("Honey, I've just cheat on you with some hot girl, but don't worry I didn't intend to, it was an accident, and I still love you") it would be ok. Ok, first, it's not accidentaly happen. The 'incident' took 2 person who were aware of what they're doin. Unless some alien took you away and force you to have an affair with her. Second, If you really love your couple, then you wouldn't cheat on them. When you truly love somebody, you will never look for another guy/gal. SO if you cheat on your couple, it means you don't love him/her dat much.
What happen next was, friend started to make a statement that it was the girl who lure the guy to make them cheat on their girlfriend or wife. Basically, he state that it's all the girl's fault. Why does its always the girl who get accused. Hey, if you guys were faithful on your girlfriend and truly love them, then no matter it's Britney Spears, Jessica Alba, or Kristin Kreuk who lure you, you won't be seduced and fall that easy. So don't blame only the girl!! It's your fault too.
My friend also told me story about somebody who cheat on his couple, confess what he did to his couple (with reasons why he cheat of course), and not get blamed by his couple since she's a very nice, kind, passion, and forgiveness lady. On his story, he gave a footage that How lucky it is to have that kind of girlfriend/wife, she will always understand you, you can cheat on her and she'll eventually forgive you, and love you unconditionally. I guess, I'm not that kind of girl.... If my couple cheat on me, it means he doesn't love me that much to keep him from seeing another girl, and it's useless for me to keep on loving him. So I'll stop. Or maybe when my couple cheat on me, I'll think that the mistake was on me. I can't make him happy, I can't make him love me the way I love him. So, I better quit the job.
Of course everybody deserve second chance. But there' s a philosophy saying If there was second chance, there will be third chance, fourth chance, ...
One your couple cheat on you, both of you will never be the same person you were before. You'll have different opinion about him/her (little bit paranoia maybe, he/she could cheat on you anytime), and he/she can repeat the same mistake, cheating again, since you will forgive him/her anyway (hey, you just love them too much). The thing is, both of you will be two different person, the relationship will be diferent. At the end, you two could turn into strangers, or if you work it out, you could be the happilly ever after couple (if you have enough love, passion, and luck).
Haha, it seems that I'm a very pesimist yet gloomy person. but that's it, that's reality. Well, I never been in that situation before, when my guy cheat on me, so I actually don't know what to do If I face that situation. Hehe. Maybe I'll turn into a stupid girl who forgive my boyfriend just to see him cheating on me again :P Well, hope I'll never >.< (*knock, knock on wood*)
Ok, basically this is not very first blog ^^ It's my first blog on this new blogging sever. I've moved my blog from www.ebloggy.com/linkie to here simply because It feels easier for me to edit my blog here ~.~ I dunno why.... Maybe cuz I'm still an old stupid noob. Since I have only two posts on my old blog, I'll remove it here. Hehehhe.
Cheers!!
Cheers!!
Blogging is Tiring!!
||Friday, June 18, 2004
I thought creating blog is easy >.<
Ok, it might seems easy at the beginning. Just register, and the wizzard will guide you, bla bla bla.
What trouble me the most is the skin!! Modifying the skin... Gosh.. Dats tiring. Exhausting indeed. Considering I'm still a stupid noob in this blog thingy. Mann... It took me few hours to make my blog look like this (With those cute dogs). And I'm sooo d**n tired. There are lotza errors. dats it!! I've had enuff!! I'll continue tomorrow I guess >.<
A tribute from me for those who create the skin. Glad there's a help option for editing skin >.<
Think I'm gonna spend few more hours for this blog tomorrow. I'm so tired, sleepy, thirsty, and I feel like a 50 years old crap with a terrible backache ~.~ Hope I can come with a better skin tomorrow, or maybe I can create my own ^^
Ok, it might seems easy at the beginning. Just register, and the wizzard will guide you, bla bla bla.
What trouble me the most is the skin!! Modifying the skin... Gosh.. Dats tiring. Exhausting indeed. Considering I'm still a stupid noob in this blog thingy. Mann... It took me few hours to make my blog look like this (With those cute dogs). And I'm sooo d**n tired. There are lotza errors. dats it!! I've had enuff!! I'll continue tomorrow I guess >.<
A tribute from me for those who create the skin. Glad there's a help option for editing skin >.<
Think I'm gonna spend few more hours for this blog tomorrow. I'm so tired, sleepy, thirsty, and I feel like a 50 years old crap with a terrible backache ~.~ Hope I can come with a better skin tomorrow, or maybe I can create my own ^^
